A Whole New Experience

Last night I checked something off my bucket list, I took a beautiful female on a date. 

Now this was a friend-zone kind of date, but it was still kind of a big deal for me as she (the beautiful lady, not dropping any names a Gentleman like me never kisses and tells) was my first ever female, I have taken out.

But I know she reads my blog so she is probably going to kick my ass for this. (oh well)

Now getting to last night was a bit of a bumpy road, because the beautiful lady I chose (who I have known for years, and is a very good friend) in the eyes of some, she has a bit of bad reputation you may say.  For like the last week I’ve been getting it in the neck, by my family (mainly my mum) to why I wanted to take her out. (at the end of the day, i am an adult i can do what i like, this is a whole new Justin people)

So I told her this last night, here’s why 

1.       Because I have never been on a date before, and if I want to jump in the dating pool I’m going to need some practice, so that was what last night was about for me.

2.       Because she has been a really good friend to me lately, so it was my way of saying thank you for being there.

3.       Even though in the eyes of some people, she has a bad reputation, (it was my choice, and I am glad I got to take her out) I am my own person and have my own mind and I chose to see past it, to me she is nice and beautiful and beauty to me isn’t just looks, though she is stunning too. To me beauty is kind, caring, warm, funny, smart it’s everything all wrapped up in to one, and yes she is this, and she has 2 of the most amazing eyes I have ever seen, and like me she has a very big heart full of love, (when you have a big heart, you can just see it in others too) and yes I do love her, but we are just friends. (number 3 I did not tell her)

Now as I said we have known each other for years, and we always talk and stuff but last night was the only time we have really spent alone together.  It was different and good.  New experiences, now some may read this and think I’m writing a love letter of something to her, which I’m not she knows how I feel and she means a lot to me she always will, other people may read this and thing what a dick and so what  this is my blog and I will say what I like. 

Last night was good me and I think I proved it to a lot of people (still not dropping names) that I am still very capable of doing things, and the one positive thing I am going to take from this... apart from saying I took a beautiful female on a date, is that it felt really Normal. 

Now I dislike using that word, but let face and it’s no secret, it’s something that we, as disabled people (and yes even me) are always chasing and that’s to be Normal. To be accepted,to fit in and last night i felt like i was all 3. :-)

I’d like to take this time to say thank you to her for allowing me and officially being the first ever female I have taken out,  it was a great new experience for me and that’s what I wanted and what I got.

Like the Poison song, Ain't looking for nothin' but a good time, and a good time is what I got.

That’s how I am looking at life at the moment, doing and trying new things it’s so true what they say life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

I guess you can I’m a bit of a late bloomer, and that I’m making up for lost time. 

It's a whole new world, out there and it’s about time that I and my wheelchair explore it. 

We went for a meal together at Chiquito, it was busy as hell in there had about 25minute wit before we got a table and then I think they forgot about our food, because by time our food came we had about 10mins before the film so was kind of a rushed but it was still nice.

 We also saw X-Men: Days of Future Past

 Best X-Men movie Yet! Believe It

It really is that good, now with its huge casts of star talent, and how much it crosses from future to past, it could have quite possibly been a flop, but IMO I think they nailed it.

Fans of the original trilogy and First Class will definitely enjoy this one thanks its perfect and well balanced mix between the original characters and the new ones (with just a few ones who maybe deserved more credit, but is not at all a problem for the movie) and this film delivers a top notch entertaining with a potent story and some good twists that help to live up expectations mixed with terrific special effects and cinematography. Now we saw it in 3-D and I didn’t think much of the 3-D parts to be honest, but hey ho you can’t have it all.  Just go see This Film. 

And in other news 

Yesterday my Download tickets got dropped of by the lovely post lady we have. 

So yeah i was really happy anyway before i went on my date, and now after a great night I am still very happy. I'm going to Download 11days today baby I'm coming Home. \m/